A Mom

Parents...we all had them at one time or another.....and many of us have been one or are one. And our lives have been involved with, shaped by, and toned by being parents.
At different times in our lives, there are events that bring the feelings- not just the responsibilities- of being a parent to a heightened level.
And then there are times in our lives when events let us know with clarity how connected we are to our offspring. Connected, truly connected. Part of me in them; parts of them with me.
It is amazing to me, being a mom for 46 years, how much closer and closer I am to my daughters. Closer in spirit, in presence, in character.
Both daughters have guts. They are strong women; they are survivors. At the same time, each is intensely creative and productive, compassionate and smart.
All three of us are independent thinkers and actors. Each of us respects individual dignity and personal paths.
When I was the grown daughter, I tried to protect my parents from various illnesses or difficulties I experienced. Now, as the mom, I am so grateful that both my daughters allow me in, to share in the realities of their lives.
I am lucky....being the mom of the daughters I have.